A generation of men raised by women


We were born and bred by women, to be groomed and taught by women, to wed women. The metrosexual male bent of the 21st century is not only a result of clever marketing strategy, but of how we live. Long before capitalisation, petrol engines and breast pumps, we lived to survive. Learning from our fathers and men of the same kin group, we devised ingenious ways to hunt and succeed – to provide for the child bearers. In these simple times, men had clearly defined occupation. Never did exist mythical creatures such as househusbands.

Fast forward a million years or so and these definitions have been blurred and even overlap. What do we have now that is required for our survival, in the hunter gatherer sense of the word. Food, shelter, warmth? If that is the case then surely no more than 5% of our possessions are necessary by that description. Can we be described as a generation of compulsive hoarders? A confused evolutionary calamity where more time in our material possessions is spent than investment in the greater good. I’m not suggesting you throw away your microwave ovens, start a cult and burn churches, but when was the last time you thought, on a profound level, whether or not to needlessly buy a new comforter duvet that your wife suggested over desert.

I have a theory. And blurring of gender roles is only the beginning, but that is for another day.

To what end does a man ponder to himself, “what kitchen fittings describe me as a person”. To be alpha and let go that which does not matter, is to be in control. And I want to make this point clear. Only when a man is truly in control of himself and his emotions is he alpha – on the path to enlightenment. For this man comprehensively understands his biological role, and his social one. He is comfortable in all environments and all situations because at the end of the day, nothing should be taken with utter seriousness. Laugh in the face of pressure. Rise to a challenge. Crush irrational fear.

This leads me to my cheif idea – relationships. The radio howls lyrics about nothing other than love and loss, a steady relationship is the ultimate goal according to this medium. A new wave of psuedo-reality programs have taken over our screens, based solely on relationships. Young men are lectured in the art of worshipping women; “Find the girl of your dreams, Shower her in gifts and affection, she will follow in kind”. No. We are brought up in a world that put women on a pedestal. Firstly this quote is often misinterpreted and taken literally. It assumes a certain amount of attraction is already present in both parties, and rapport is yet to be developed; again, for a later post. Secondly, if the man is actually a man in the social sense, he will not be running around chasing tail, creeping on random girls in order to find THE ONE. He will be chasing his ideas, his dreams and developing his principles. The rest will follow…

Maxim #5 A man will only lose money chasing women, but will never lose women chasing money

Is the love of a women all we really aspire to as men? With respect to evolution, passing on genes is primary, and don’t get me wrong, I’m no misogynist. I’m asking if it is possible to overcome this biological default. To evolve in a completely new way, transcendentally. To consciously evolve ones bearing and internalise an alpha frame.

Fortunately I have the answer…

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On Alice in Wonderland

The pre-conditioning and socialisation of the developed society has us obsessed with life-style. We acquire income from jobs we hate, to supplement outgoings on celebrity endorsed grills and designer dildos. We are consumers.

The Mad Men of Madison Avenue have us chasing cars larger than our roads, “secret” dietary tricks which allow repulsive heffers to consume inordinate calories and “STILL DROP TEN lbs”, and beauty products with pseudo-scientific ingredients. Even the sexualisation of children is a result of profit based marketing – and we wonder why pedophilia is on the rise.

Darwin’s theory predicts crime, suffering and poverty – these things don’t concern us. If we are to evolve to the next degree, we must become divorce from materialistic insentive. We must start a revolution, a social revolution. Education must be completely rehashed, and the standardisation model abolished – comparable to that of the fast food industry. The labour governments idea to send EVERYONE to university, including plebeians and retards has led to a generation of overqualified bin men, with no clue, and no direction.

But how deep does the rabbit hole go?

Over the next couple of weeks I will be making some posts based on some of these ideas.

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Quotes to live by

Keep these concepts close to mind. One day they will be more useful than you know.

“This is your life and it’s ending one minute at a time.

Every word you read of this useless fine print is another second off your life. Don’t you have other things to do? Is your life so empty that you honestly can’t think of a better way to spend these moments?

What would you wish you’d done before you died? You have to know the answer to this question!

If you died right now, how would you feel about your life?”

Tyler Durden

“The way of the samurai is in desperateness. Ten men cannot kill such a man. Common sense will not accomplish great things. Simply become insane and desperate.”

The Book of the Samurai – Yamamoto Tsunetomo

The great prizefighter Jack Dempsey was once asked, “when you are about to hit a man, do you aim for his chin or his nose?” “Neither,” Dempsey replied. “I aim for the back of his head.”

The Mind of War – Grant T. Hammond

Veni, Vidi, Vici (I came, I saw, I conquered)

– Julius Ceasar

The quote from The Mind of War is most relevant. The one from Fight Club is definitely most badass. One to think about:

“All the ways you wish you could be, that’s me. I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.”

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On becoming άλφα

The term ‘alpha’ comes with stigma. It is really a metaphor for becoming the best person you can be. You 2.0. In order to have control over your relationship, career, or any other aspect of your life, you MUST have control over yourself. Fundamentally, assume an assertive outlook in order to succeed. If anything, err on the side of aggression and NOT passivity.

For the ordinary man is passive. Within a narrow circle (home life, and perhaps the trade unions or local politics) he feels himself master of his fate, but against major events he is as helpless as against the elements. So far from endeavoring to influence the future, he simply lies down and lets things happen to him.

My point is beautifully captured by Author, George Orwell. “So far from endeavoring to influence the future”. This single line describes 90% of our population, and incidentally the basis of the beta. I will be writing about the ways of a beta in a later post.

Assertion is one of many qualities of an alpha. Other attributes include (but are not confined to), confidence, ambition, adaptability, dexterity and will.

Here is a list of things to deeply consider, now that you have taken your first step to becoming Empirewon.

1. Be decisive. Get your head out of your arse. Stop making excuses, if you plan on doing something, DO IT. Have you ever noticed that some people manage to fill their days with activities whilst other sit at home wasting away into the lard buffering sofa. It’s not a coincidence that these people fail at life whilst the former succeed.

2. Realise your focus. Whatever it is you’re doing in life, understand what it is you’re there to do, and make sure you become the best at it. If it involves maiming your rivals, at least you’re taking a productive step towards your goals. If it involves selling your girlfriend in order to obtain investment capital, at least you’re taking a productive step towards your goals. Once a mans goals fade into the background, so does the man.

3. Visualise. We’ve all heard of the secret. Once you get past the gift wrapped marketing crap, and bore to the naked message, it really does make a lot of sense. If you constantly think in negatives, only negative things will happen (not accounting for sheer luck). If you are positive and proactive hell, bad things may happen, but their occurrence will be overshadowed by the positive things in your life. Alun Sugar often seems as charismatic as your 90 year old grandmother, post enema. On the inside, he’s calculated and unflappable.

Note: Don’t make the mistake of visualising failure, and attempting to do the opposite. See yourself in that grand office, head CEO. Visualise your wealth, or your relationships, or even just your good health. The following steps then become logical, and not abstract.

Others: Cold approach people. If you feel yourself stricken with fear, face it with your chin up. Stop watching daytime television. Invest time in art and music. Introduce culture into your life. Read Robert Greene, Niell Strauss, The Game etc, Watch Fight Club, Wall Street, James Bond. Study these characters. Understand what makes them tick. Next, see yourself as them, and what you could achieve with a simple bent of attitude.

See below: Socrates = mega Alpha.

Socrates being badass

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Inspirational post

By Shark

Deep within every guy is an Ultra-Alpha eternally at war with the feminine Omni-Matrix that works so vigorously to turn him into an estrogen fueled spineless beta.

become an alpha male

Glimpses of our inner Alphas can be seen on those few occasions where we truly feel dominant (right before entering a relationship or when we’re in a position of leadership).

Fully internalizing an Alpha mode of thought and unleashing the full extent of our Solipsism simply means releasing the torrent of Alphaness trapped within us. I’ve said this before – it is more a process of discovery than invention. The fact that guys are surfing the web looking for “new” techniques to become Alpha just proves how efficiently the architects of the matrix have been able to brain wash our generation of men. Our naturally masculine nodes of consciousness have been reduced into semi-anthropomorphic vagina smelling in-need-of-Viagra stim packed nauseous mental routs.

If you are a victim of the Matrix, you must follow protocol to harness your neglected masculinity.

Step 1: Realize you are a beta and the severity of your condition. If you are on this site, you have most likely already diagnosed yourself with an overly feminine approach to life and you have already begun to see your flaws. The more you become self-aware of your massively fucked up AFCism, the easier it will be to fix your mistakes. Are you whipped by your girlfriend? Do you need her a lot more than she needs you? Do you apologize sometimes just to get sex? Do you backpedal whenever she throws a shit test at you? Does your girlfriend flirt with other guys excessively? Does she still talk to her ex-boyfriend jerk who is clearly more Alpha than you? Do you take authority as truth rather than truth as authority? Do you have a Penis? Don’t lie to yourself.

Step 2: Begin to CONSCIOUSLY think differently. I stress the word consciously because at first the conditioned AFC mindset you have will resist any shift in mentality – our minds and bodies are abhorrent to change, they prefer to maintain a perpetual stasis. You will have to FORCE yourself to NOT be indecisive. Force yourself to NOT say insecure things. Force yourself to THINK positively. Force yourself to be more relaxed wherever you go. Forcefully SLOW-DOWN your life rather than live like a rabbit on crack. Force yourself to maintain frame and composure when your girlfriend freaks out. Force yourself to sublimate your instinctively beta responses to shit tests [no apologies, and do not supplicate shit tests.]

Step 3: Internalize. This is where guys always fuck things up. Your newly found Alphaness will attract women, you will find yourself a girlfriend, and then after about 2 months of shit testing, your frame will begin to shake. 99% of guys introduced to game drop the ball here. Do NOT regress back into beta mode. The deeper you go into your relationship, the more you’ll be inclined to ask for sex, to get lazy about talking to other women, to let her emotional state dictate your response, and to develop some sort of psychological dependency. Be warned: Oneitis obliterates Alphaness and testosterone like a tofu diet.

**Now a final note of severe importance. You don’t need to figure out a way to “think alpha.” Alpha male manifestos were invented to SELL the product of self-development. You are ALREADY ALPHA, you only need to stop supplicating your AFCism and start aligning your actual consciousness with your inner Alphaness.

EVERY guy reading this KNOWS what he should do. They KNOW they should dump their soul-sucking blood thirsty girlfriends, they KNOW they need to stop playing world of warcraft, they KNOW they should be gunning down their dreams – but they don’t.**

You are asking for knowledge to understand; but what you really need is inspiration to execute.

“As you think, you shall become”

***See the blog roll and head over to his site.

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Tyler Durden; What better example to talk about success. The character, created by chuck palahniuk in 1996, exudes confidence, charisma, and a hunger for success. Success. Maybe not in the sense that you or I would consider success in the 21st century – most people define lifetime success as having material wealth or fame. Palahniuk’s character does not follow this archetype. N’no, this rogue polymath has bigger fish to fry.

And this is what this blog is about. Many themes discussed here are going to be based around characters of the like. Creating something bigger than a business, obtaining something more than material goods. This site is about building frame, personal brand equity, and α male inner control.


tr.v. con·trolledcon·trol·lingcon·trols

1. To exercise authoritative or dominating influence over; direct.
2. To adjust to a requirement; regulate
3. To hold in restraint
4. To reduce or prevent spread

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